Friday, July 10, 2009

It Wasn't Me

It's the little things that make our family unique. The traditions, of sorts, that develop over the years. The rituals that would bore any would-be spy to death. The things you really barely notice, but that would leave a huge gap if they disappeared.

With Lil Bit:

me: "Hey, Lil Bit, guess what!"
Lil Bit: "What?"
me: "I love you" or "You make me smile" or "you make me happy" or something along those lines.


With Bitty Bit:

me: "Biiiiiittttty Bit!"
Bitty Bit: "yeth?"
me: "Are you precious?"
Bitty: "I preh-shus." sometimes she adds "Mommy preshus. Sissy preshus. Daddy preshus."


(sometimes I also ask her if she is cute, or a mess, or a cute mess, or sweet. Precious is my current favorite because I love hearing her repeat it.)

With my Handsome Engineer:

At some point during the day--usually in the evening when I am either making dinner or cleaning dishes--he will walk by and smack my backside.
Handsome: "It wasn't me!"
Me: "It better have been you"

We have been doing this for most of our 10 year marriage. Daily. It is silly, probably a little stupid, and certainly repetitive. But what an emptiness there would be if it stopped.

What are your silly traditions?

1 Bitty Thoughts:

Kristin's Natural Childcare said...

When I was dating D, when we would go to sleep, idk why but one night i rolled back (we slept back to back) and touched our butts together and made a kiss sound. so every night from then on (about 2 years) one of us would make our butts kiss. :) that might be the only thing I miss LOL!