Thursday, July 30, 2009

School Supplies

Short vent.

We won't find out the actual teachers for our kids until this weekend or early next week.

Each teacher has a supply list that deviates slightly from the standard list for the grade.

Do I buy 6 speckled composition books, or 8? Do I buy 4 packs of crayons or 2? Do I buy 25 glue sticks or 30? A 3-inch three ring binder or a 1.5 inch three ring binder?

Normally, I would err on the side of caution and just buy the higher amount, but the standard list has already cost me SEVENTY FIVE DOLLARS. Are you kidding me??? And trust me, I was shopping for deals--I got crayons for 25 cents a pack and glue sticks at 1/4 the price I could find anywhere else. But after the folders and notebooks and binders and clorox wipes (well, generic) and baggies and hand sanitizers and pencils, it adds up.

And I cannot wait until next week to go shopping, due to other circumstances it just isn't possible. So, whoever her teacher is will have to deal with the "standard grade list" supplies. Sorry.

Oh, and I was a rebel and didn't buy her the plain black and white speckled composition books. She got black and white patterned ones and a green speckled one and a blue speckled one. Same price, but much more fun. Just call me a non-conformist.


I think I am going to go look at the photos from my in-laws farm again, I need to calm down and breathe deep.

Wednesday, July 29, 2009

Ahhhhhhhhhhh

There are a few places in the world that just fill me with peace.
The ocean.
My farm early in the morning (if the kids are still asleep--once they are up, "peace" isn't always possible).
The mountains, especially if we have been camping and I get to wake up early in the morning.

And my in-laws farm, right on a river. I was able to spend a wonderful two days there, and snuck out to take pictures a couple times.

Catching the last of the evening light. I should have gone out a few minutes earlier, but I was caught up in wonderful conversations with my father in law and mother in law. Staying at their home is wonderful, peaceful, and full of laughter and deeply intellectual conversations. I would say it is pretty close to perfection!

Their home is right on a bend in the river, so the view stretches much further than these photos capture.

The view just as you come out their back door in the morning.

This farm has been in the family for two generations now. Chris' grandparents bought it, and now it belongs to his parents. I love hearing how things have changed, and how things have stayed the same, through the generations. It is neat seeing my kids enjoy activities that my husband loved as a kid--like going out in the boat, or catching crabs off the dock with a string and a piece of chicken.


The sandbar that stretches out just in front of their home. Last summer it was much wider and we went walking out there with the kids, but there have been other years that the water is high enough to completely cover it.
Year to year, tide to tide, this shoreline is never quite the same.


There is something about the way dewdrops capture the sun. It seems cheerful and full of hope and renewal.


The remains of a giant tree that used to stand along the water line--a hurricane blew it down a few years ago. My handsome husband used to swing off a rope swing into the water from this tree as a kid and it was a bit sad to see the grand old tree go.
In the backdrop, you can see their boat dock, which stretches out into a inlet that runs to the side of their property, rather into the main part of the river.

If you look near the opposite shore, you can see the high school crew team going past. I am pretty sure these kids saw hours of the day that most teenagers don't even know exist.

As the crew team passed, a blue heron flew by. I think I was standing where he wanted to land and he yelled at me rather loudly. For being such beautiful birds, they sure have an ugly voice.

The sandbar--which this year is really more of a peninsula.

After gazing down the river for a while, I decided to walk over to their dock. The fiddler crabs were all scurrying back into the marsh grass to hide from my intrusion. (If you click on the photo to enlarge it, you can see their disproportionately large claws.)

Standing on the dock, looking over part of the small inlet back towards one of their pastures.

The home. Where at that moment there was coffee brewing, bacon frying, and buckwheat pancakes on the griddle.
Thank you, Mom and Dad, for such a wonderful couple of days!

Sunday, July 26, 2009

Dude, Put Some Clothes On

It is not that hot. And neither are you.

Seriously, if you have left adolescence and you are not at the beach, there is NO reason to be walking around in no shirt for over an hour.

Especially at a youth swim championship or any other place where there are lots of young kids.

It makes you look like a pedophile.

Friday, July 24, 2009

Championships!

It has been a busy week.
Preparing Lil Bit for her biggest swim meet of the year . . .

The Championships!

(Lil Bit is the one in the pink camouflage cap with the almost perfect--for her age--dive!)

Good Luck Lil Bit! Swim like crazy!!!

Monday, July 20, 2009

Thank You Campbell's


When my girl's have a tummy bug, this makes it a little better.


When I am sick, this makes it a little better

My husband does a fabulous job taking care of both me and the girls when we are under the weather. Thanks Chris!

Thursday, July 16, 2009

About Time They Started Earning Their Keep

No, this isn't a child labor post. This is a chicken labor post.


Once they are up to "full production" of six eggs per day . . .
at an estimate of 20 cents per egg . . .
minus the feed . . .
minus the off season lower egg production . . .

It should take them approximately 293 years to cover what it cost us to build the coop.

It was all for the experience anyway.

Friday, July 10, 2009

It Wasn't Me

It's the little things that make our family unique. The traditions, of sorts, that develop over the years. The rituals that would bore any would-be spy to death. The things you really barely notice, but that would leave a huge gap if they disappeared.

With Lil Bit:

me: "Hey, Lil Bit, guess what!"
Lil Bit: "What?"
me: "I love you" or "You make me smile" or "you make me happy" or something along those lines.


With Bitty Bit:

me: "Biiiiiittttty Bit!"
Bitty Bit: "yeth?"
me: "Are you precious?"
Bitty: "I preh-shus." sometimes she adds "Mommy preshus. Sissy preshus. Daddy preshus."


(sometimes I also ask her if she is cute, or a mess, or a cute mess, or sweet. Precious is my current favorite because I love hearing her repeat it.)

With my Handsome Engineer:

At some point during the day--usually in the evening when I am either making dinner or cleaning dishes--he will walk by and smack my backside.
Handsome: "It wasn't me!"
Me: "It better have been you"

We have been doing this for most of our 10 year marriage. Daily. It is silly, probably a little stupid, and certainly repetitive. But what an emptiness there would be if it stopped.

What are your silly traditions?

Thursday, July 9, 2009

Don't Hassel the Hoff

This is dedicated especially to Molly.

I haven't laughed this hard in a while. Or maybe I was in tears. Something.


Wednesday, July 8, 2009

THAT'S What it Feels Like to Relax!

I know this is a bit belated, but it kind of got lost in our other news. We had a wonderful July 4th, as I hope you all did. My parents had the Bits that weekend (well, except the one that is in process, he or she is rather attached to me at this point), so my handsome engineer and I got to have some long overdue time just the two of us.

We did things like stay up late just because we could, and sleep in just because we could, and not get out of bed even though we were awake just because we could. (do you see a trend?)

Then we went on a long trail ride together with Chivalry and Annie--something we haven't been able to do in years because we can't both leave the kids. Afterward, we stopped at our neighbors who were having a picnic and gave all the kids (and a couple adults) "pony rides". It was completely impromptu and so much fun!

That evening we went over to some friends' home and had a cookout and watched fireworks over the lake. It was wonderful. And nice to only fix MY plate of food, instead of the Bits and THEN mine.

By Sunday, though, I really missed my Bits and was VERY ready to have them back home.

I don't have photos of anything, except the fireworks. I hope you enjoy them.

You can see a little of the shoreline in this one. and some lights from the boats that were anchored to watch the show.

I love this photo.



Tuesday, July 7, 2009

The Third Bit

I wonder what he or she will look like.

Our two bits at birth:

sisters


And now . . .


Really, they don't look much alike anymore. Lil Bit mostly resembles Chris and Bitty Bit mostly resembles me. Their personalities couldn't be much different, either.

So, to answer a few questions:

1. Due January 24. This is a special day b/c it is my older sister's birthday, as well as the birthday of our grandma and her sister (my great aunt).

2. I won't actually have the baby that day, since it is a Sunday and I will have a planned c-section.

3. Nope, I am not feeling good. Morning sickness (which is definitely not reserved for mornings) is more aptly named "progesterone poisoning" when it comes to me and pregnancy. Still, it is nowhere near as bad as it was with Lil Bit, so I am grateful.

4. The Bits are thrilled! Well, Lil Bit is. Bitty Bit doesn't really get it yet.

5. We don't know whether this is a boy or girl yet--that won't happen till about 22 weeks, so, we have a couple months.

6. I really want to have Bitty Bit potty trained this summer so that I don't have two in diapers. Two in diapers sounds like no fun at all. Keep your fingers crossed for that.


Think that's about it, but if you have any other questions, just ask!

Monday, July 6, 2009

Three Bits


It means exactly what you think it means.

Friday, July 3, 2009

Ten Years

Twelve and a half years ago, to the day, some college guy with a surfer haircut showed up at my parents' front door and whisked me into his red(ish) Honda prelude as my little sister and her friends all gave me thumbs up signs and giggled so very NOT discreetly.

We went to a coffee house where he ordered a second cup just to prolong the date, and then gave me a driving tour of his University.

I am pretty sure I tripped getting out of the car. I was still holding one of his keychains that I had been fiddling with. He was secretly hoping I would forget to give it back so he could have an excuse to show up the next day. To his chagrin, I remembered.

Two days later I invited him over to hang out and watch a movie. I only had a few days left before I headed back to my own college two states away and, while I was REALLY not interested in dating anyone seriously, I liked this guy.

Did I mention I was still 18?
He was 21.

At the end of the evening, we kissed--shocking both of us. To this day we fight over who kissed who, since we both were intending just a hug (I swear though, it wasn't me). It was just meant to be.

The rest of the week we did something every day:
I thoroughly cheated at putt-putt, using my big brown eyes and pecks on the cheek to my every advantage.
We drove out to the beach insanely early to watch a sunrise. In January. Even with my coat, I was freezing and he gallantly took off his own coat, despite my protests.
He joined my family for an early birthday dinner.

My parents loved him. When I went back to college, he would still come over to their house for dinner or to help my little sister with her homework. A month later he was able to come out and visit me and that was when I knew--not just suspected--that I was truly in love with this guy.


Eleven years ago, he proposed. I accepted


Ten years ago, we made a solemn vow:

For Better or for Worse. For Richer or for Poorer. In Sickness or in Health. Til Death Do Us Part.

I am still absolutely insanely in love with my husband.


Song of Solomon 5:16, This is my love, This is my friend

Wednesday, July 1, 2009

The World Through Her Eyes

Lil Bit asked if she could take some pictures with my camera the other day. What started out as one or two turned into about 20. It was neat looking at them afterward. It gave a glimpse into the world as Lil Bit sees it: the things she finds important and interesting. I won't pester you by posting ALL twenty.

But I am going to post some. Because I can.

Pi

Wick.

Charlie Chaplin. A little blurry, but somehow catches the essence of Charlie.

Onions I am getting ready to plant in my herb garden.

Random pinecone she put on our wrought iron table and took a photo of.

oriental teacup with a black-eyed susan in it. I love all the wildflowers my girls pick for me. I keep them on my windowsill above the sink--gives me a little smile while I slave away at the dishes.

Of Peaches and Heartbreak

We have a peach tree out near the barn. Last year I made wonderful peach jam from the produce, as well as eating a lot of the fruit. They were sweet and juicy and perfect!

I have been anticipating making peach salsa and cinnamon peach jam and peach ice cream and all sorts of new recipes this year.

So you can understand why my heart broke when I went out to see how many peaches had started, knowing they wouldn't be ripe for several weeks, and found this


and this


Nothing. Not a single peach on my tree. At first I thought that maybe the deer had just gotten the lower branches. But no, not even the high branches have any peaches. And I have no idea why.

There will be no peach preserves. No peach salsa. No peach ice cream.

I sat on the ground and sobbed inconsolably and put on sackcloth and ashes.

And then I saw this . . .


One peach.

I guess I can have it over cereal or something.